How we can help you write to a loved one

Writing to a friend or family member when they are unwell can be daunting. But once you get the words flowing, it’s easier than you think. At From Me To You, we want to help you write the letter that will help both of you, so here’s some common questions and our answers to guide you a little.

How do I start? 

We’ve got ten great examples here to get you started. 

Remember that you’re writing to someone you know. Think about how you’ve talked to them in the past. Keep that warmth with you, and let the letter take you from there.

How do I sign off? 

Make sure you don’t put any pressure on your reader to reply. Include something that makes them realise that they have no need to write back, like this:

I hope this letter has brought a little light. Please know, you don’t have to reply. I’ll write again soon. 

All the very best to you, and yours.

L

There are some other examples here.

What sort of things can I write about? 

Keep it light, and let your reader into your life. Talk about your day, your favourite book, a funny story about one of your children, an overhead conversation, a television programme you watched recently… the list goes on.

We’ve got some brilliant sample letters here that you can dive into for inspiration, but remember this:

It’s what comes after that difficult opening paragraph that matters to the reader; this is the part of the letter that they’ll cherish. You only have to write the difficult first letter once, after that the others will be much easier.

I’m worried I’ll say the wrong thing. 

Believe us, it’s really hard to say the wrong thing. The right intention will ensure the right tone.

There’s some great advice in this blog, but remember that it’s absolutely fine to say you’re sorry and that you don’t know what to say. It’s not what you say, more the fact you’re saying something that makes the difference.  

How much should I write? 

Write as much as you can, or would like to. That can be on a postcard, in a greetings card, on fancy notepaper, on lined paper, blank A4 paper… you get the point. It’s all OK. 

A line to say hello on a postcard can have just as much of an impact as three pages of notepaper.

Can I see some sample letters to give me ideas? 

Of course! We’re adding to the sample letters shared on the blog all the time, and here’s some to get you started. 

I’m not very good at writing, what else could I include? 

Pop a poem on the page, draw your view, or even cross-stitch the card. Whatever you feel comfortable with, the gift of your time and energy will always be well received.

We’ve put together some ideas here to help you.